Girl in India sits outside her home, smiling as she talks about helping prevent child marriages for others
18 January 2021

Anuradha: More than a child bride

At 13, marriage ended her dreams. Now Anuradha is fighting for a better future.

A story of child marriage, in her own words

Anuradha was just 13 when child marriage – and motherhood – ended her dreams of becoming a teacher. Or so it seemed. Now 23, she’s a mother of three, a respected advocate for children in her community in India – and she’s back in education. How did she do it?

“Dawn had just broken and the skies began to turn bright. My mother, rather hurriedly, woke me up saying, 'Anuradha! Wake up! You need to do a lot of chores and get ready'. While my body resisted waking up, my inner voice screamed loudly, 'There is school today! Wake up!' It did not take a second longer for me to wake up and rush out of the bed.

"For the next two hours, I did all the household chores along with my mother – washing dishes, washing clothes, milking the buffaloes and a lot of other things.

"Just when I was going to get my school uniform, my mother yelled to me, 'Wear the new dress that we bought for you'.

"'But the teacher will shout at me for wearing that dress,' I corrected her.

Little did I know that my mother wanted me to dress for an event that was going to change my life."

Side-by-side photos: New bride Anuradha with husband Krishna, and the couple today
On the left, Anuradha, 13, stands in her new dress with her husband Krishna. On the right, the couple today.

Married at 13

At that time, Anuradha was only 13 years old and studying in year eight. Just a few days later, she was married; a child bride. Within a year, she gave birth to her first child.

Luckily, her husband, Krishna, was supportive of her and permitted her to study until the tenth standard. Unfortunately, though, when Anuradha was supposed to take her final tenth board exams, she was eight months pregnant with her second child. Due to stress being unsafe for her pregnancy, her family convinced her to miss her exams and she dropped out of school.

As a child myself, I always wanted to study and become a teacher. I really did not understand marriage and its facets until I was older.

Empowered by knowledge

That’s when Anuradha met World Vision. She attended an information session in her village on Maternal, Newborn and Child Health, where she learnt the importance of providing newborn babies with nutritious and healthy food. Her second child was weak and malnourished, so this programme helped her baby grow into a healthy child.

“Ever since that programme, I began attending all the programmes conducted by World Vision in my community because I felt empowered by the knowledge I was acquiring,” says a joyful Anuradha.

Soon, Anuradha attended a training on child rights, where she learnt about the primary right to education. World Vision’s community facilitator, Sunil, encouraged her to re-take her tenth-grade exams through open schooling. Since she already had a desire to study further, she immediately asked her husband to enrol her back in school.

“When Sunil came and spoke to us about helping Anuradha complete her education, I felt it was unjust to ask her to quit school. So, I took the initiative to enrol her into the tenth grade to complete schooling,” said Krishna.

Anuradha sit on the steps outside her home in India, with husband Krishna and their three sons
Anuradha today, with her husband Krishna and their three sons

More than just someone’s wife

The flame of Anuradha’s hope was reignited and she has pursued her dreams ever since. A naturally gifted speaker, Anuradha joined World Vision India as a volunteer and began training children on education and child rights. She went door-to-door in her village to familiarise parents with these notions, and worked to ensure that all children in her village are enrolled in school.

In no time, everyone in her village and neighbouring villages knew who Anuradha was.

"Earlier I used to be known as ‘Krishna’s wife’, but now everyone here calls me ‘Anuradha'."

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Preventing child marriages

Anuradha also soon realised that, like hers, the dreams of many girls in her village were being silenced because of child marriage.

In 2016, she joined the Child Protection Unit, formed by World Vision in her village. The members were trained about child protection issues and how to tackle them. They were also made aware of various agencies like Child Line, the District Child Protection Unit and the Child Welfare Committee, who can help legally deal with cases of child abuse and child marriage.

Since several girls in the village had good relationships with Anuradha, she was naturally well placed to support the Child Protection Unit work. One 14 year old girl approached her and shared that her family was secretly getting her married. Anuradha informed the local World Vision staff, and together they reported the case. Child Line visited the village, counselled the family and stopped the child marriage.

Anuradha then kept a close eye on other families in the village who may be looking to get their daughters married as child brides.

Within two years, she had reported four other cases to Child Line, who not only stopped those marriages, but also conducted large-scale training on the evils and consequences of child marriage.

In 2017, Anuradha was recognised by the District Collector with a bravery award for stopping these child marriages.

“I don’t want other girls to endure this”

“I know the difficulties of being married off at such a young age and I don’t want other girls to endure this,” says Anuradha.

“At the age of 13, a young girl doesn’t even know how to do things for herself. The destruction of marrying off a girl and boy at such a young age is such that they cannot financially support their new family; they don’t even have a proper education to find a decent job. They do not have the maturity or capacity to endure this responsibility at that age."

Anuradha helps children at the education centre in her community in India - making sure they get the education they deserve.
Anuradha now works with children in her community, looking out for their rights and making sure they get the education they deserve.

A brighter future - for herself and others

Today, aged 23, Anuradha is mum to three boys. She’s successfully stopped five child marriages and counselled over 20 families against it in her village over the past few years.

Apart from being a busy mum and an active anti-child marriage advocate in her community, she also works as an anchor for a local news channel, where she speaks passionately about child rights and the rights of women.

She is now completing her higher education and hopes to pursue a degree in education to fulfil her childhood dream by becoming a teacher.

And it’s not only her own dreams that are coming true. One child from the village, whose marriage was stopped by Anuradha a few years ago, recently completed her schooling and is now studying for a bachelor’s degree.

Anuradha smiles as her oldest sons and some of the children she helps at World Vision's Remedial Education Centre wave their hands in the air
Anuradha is joined by her oldest sons and some of the children she supports at World Vision's Remedial Education Centre

More than she even dreamed

While playing with the children she teaches at the Remedial Education Centre run by World Vision in her community, Anuradha concludes:

“My life has changed. Ever since I was educated about my rights, I’ve left no stone unturned. At first, I was very angry about my marriage but now I have left the regret behind and I’m determined to make the lives of other girls in my community secure. I feel extremely proud when girls come and thank me for stopping their marriage.”

When you become a child and community sponsor with World Vision, you help a child to become more than their circumstances. Child sponsorship funds vital programmes so that vulnerable children, like those Anuradha helps, learn about their rights, are protected, access a quality education and can look ahead to a brighter future.

Without World Vision’s projects, Anuradha would be another child bride, mourning her lost childhood, education, her own identity and her dreams. But today, she is so much more.

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